Sometimes you have to do what you don't want to do
This is life. There are no utopia's. Denzel Washington was once said, "sometimes you have to do what you need to do so that you can do what you want to do". We are consistently faced with things we don't like. Life is filled with distasteful things that are necessary. There should be no war here because there is no way to win it. Embrace this with all your heart, soul mind and strength and find solutions.
I have observed something in people who achieve their goals. They don't avoid hard things, in fact they confront them head on. If you look at their priority list it tends to be filled with hard things. Hard things are a priority for successful people. This is the exact opposite of people who tend to struggle. I have also observed something else. People who get things done usually do the hard things first. Most people are procrastinators and excuse makers. If I had a dollar for every excuse I've made I would be very wealthy. Putting off hard things makes them harder. Hard things are like cavities they just get worse the longer they aren't attended to. Right Dr Charlie Ward?
Here's the bottom line: your life should be characterized by habits that consistently confront hard things with evolving solutions that enable you move towards your goals.
Grace and Peace